People are either givers or takers. Takers have a sense of entitlement, confidence and self belief. Givers have an exaggerated feeling of empathy, compassion and low self esteem. I am a reluctant giver with aspirations towards becoming a taker with giving tendencies. Is that a good thing? I've never claimed to be saint, nor would I want to be one. I am a sinner through and through but a nice one.