I will never if I live to a thousand understand why and how a man's honour resides in a woman's vagina! All religions and all patriarchal cultures have sought to curtail and control female sexuality. It boils down to a simple fact: a man wants to know that the children he is raising are fathered by him. That basic reality has caused and continues to cause no end of pain and suffering to womankind. We are paying the price for men's insecurity to this day. This insecurity has been dressed up and disguised as honour. And women have been brainwashed into believing that cocooning themselves in swaddling cloths, separating themselves from society makes them more honourable and godly. And It makes me mad!